I could see if he was a violent felon but a cop? I don't think it's that weird. I know cops I like, hell, I know cops I love, but generally, cops are, well, they're COPS. It's the grown up version of a snitch, except with a gun. Not everyone's into that sort of thing. There are a handful of guys that I won't date, cops are one of those guys.
I came to the conclusion, years ago, that I would never date them. Well, never say never, I did have a brief 'moment' with one and it was exactly as I thought it would be. I'm not trying to stereotype the men who serve and all that good stuff, but where I come from- all the cops are the dudes in high school that were usually made fun of or weren't cool and they end up becoming cops to have that artifical sense of 'power', most of them abusing it.
So, yes I am pointing the finger at 'cops' but maybe I should point a finger at myself. Maybe I have an issue with authority. Maybe I have an issue with blue lights. Maybe it doesn't make sense to me to spend your entire youth running from them, only to end up dating one. Talk about sleeping with the enemy. Oh, I just thought you were happy to see me.
I don't think so. I think they are attractive in the way that they are very masculine and has a strong personality, the kind of Knight in shining Armour. If that's the worse thing that's ever happened to you on a date, consider yourself lucky. Sounded pretty tame to me. Who said that's the worst thing that's ever happened to me on a date? I don't seem to remember writing that I'm dating a reserve cop.
I think the bond they have within the department is nice. We always have great BBQs and the guys, and gals, are a hoot to be around. And you get to hear funny cop stories. I have a lot of cop friends that are like the rest of my friends. I wouldn't group them into a bad group of guys. There is good and bad in everyone. Now you do have to deal with the crazy work hours but if you married a techie or a musician same dif.
If you're worried about being labeled a snitch past 21 you got bigger issues with your circle of friends than dating cops. I wish you luck and hope that this does not change your perception of police officers as there are kind, gentle souls out there! There is also the option of completely blocking him phone, social media, etc and if he stills tries to get in contact with you, you could always report him for stalking. This was such a great article.
Thanks so much for sharing!! Good luck to you guys! He knows that there are certain things that I want to know nothing about i. Say, if I read about it in the newspaper and then ask him. My advice to you is to just be patient.. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Twitter account.
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Question to LEOs Gonna sound weird I work at a retail store as a cashier at the moment, and every once in awhile a handsome cop comes through my line. I attempt a flirt, but I feel like its tacky and sort of comes off like I'm either sweet talking him to get out of a ticket or I'm a complete badge bunny. Nearly all of them are very friendly and outgoing which intrigues me even more.
I'm not sure if they are just being nice or they are bored out of their minds sitting in their car and looking for any reason to talk. No, I truly am not looking for any benefits to dating a cop. I admire them and the traits most of them possess. It takes a lot of intelligence, problem solving skills, and usually physicality to be a cop. Its almost like a mini pre-screening, like they are probably going to be a quality and genuine guy.
So should I back off and not concern myself with the occupation? Or is there a way to kind of Like a cop bar or something? Also, what are some interesting or clever things I could talk about to a cop that might increase the likelihood of at least a friendship when a cop comes through my line? If it matters I'm a gay guy, so it is especially difficult to read the situation. Are there a lot of gay cops? I assume I wouldn't be able to tell if they were interested in guys unless they tell me specifically You might want to try a firefighter, they're all at least bi Wow, that was tasteless.
Personally, I feel incredibly awkward trying to be flirty in uniform. It just feels weird for some reason. I thought they went ahead and put your badge in a display case when they put you on desk duty, anyway. The uniform is just puke green decoration at this point!
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