Some are weird, some are looking for kinky sex partners and some are wacko. I've decided that I'm better off alone -- eHarmony. My warning to women: If you have a unique name, do not post your first name or even your last initial on your profile ANYWHERE even in your user name. Do not post your age, and if you live in a smaller town or city, say you live in the closest big city to you. My stalker situation wasn't as extreme as some, but it irked me enough to get a lawyer which I'm glad I did.
It got to the point where any message at all would just annoy me. Most were complimenting my appearance and asking for sex. A few dates resulted in attempted rape, a 'stage-5 clinger,' and a bunch of insecure guys who ended up telling me I was a 'teasing whore' when I didn't feel a connection. It's worse than being at a bar with the unsolicited dick pictures and sexually charged introductions -- 'You look like you take it up the ass.
They are able to hide behind gadgets and feel that they can be completely disrespectful. Also, when you tell men you aren't interested, they respond with, 'Whatever, bitch, you're ugly anyway. My friend is a fitness instructor, she was dating someone within a week. I have yet to get a date after trying four options. Guys would chat with me, then disappear, never to ask me out. I even tried starting conversations.
I finally had a date set up after my sister secretly signed me up and landed him, and he didn't show. It's too artificial -- you're judging solely on looks. We spoke for a while, but something did not feel right as I was talking to him. I got the idea to try and figure out how to reverse image through Google, dropped his picture in and bam -- the pictures were linked to an Instagram account in England of a semi-famous personal trainer.
Every picture he ever used was from this site, and I immediately felt violated and betrayed. I reported him, blocked his number, deleted any account I could think of that may have my information on it in the online dating world and swore off of it for good. Most men my age are looking for women that are much younger, or if they are my age, they want someone who doesn't have young kids. If anyone has ever suggested that you might be too picky, chances are, they're right.
Your list may be so long on your profile, that it discourages would-be suitors who'd rather find someone more easy-going. If your search parameters are too narrow, it's rare that you'll find a compatible partner, online or offline. She's a vivacious woman with a lot to offer a man. She has a successful career, beautiful home, loves to cook, and really wanted to fall in love. She came to me as a last resort, having been single for a decade.
I looked at her profile and her search requirements were so limiting. She only wanted to meet a man who lived within a five-mile radius of where she resided. Her age parameters only spanned five years. It was an impossible task with unrealistic expectations. She didn't realize it, but she was just too picky. We broadened her search to 40 miles and expanded her age range to years, six older and six younger than herself. She's now dating someone age-appropriate who lives a town away.
Are you too picky? If so, it's time to cast a wider net. You're too difficult to reach. You wouldn't send a resume looking for your dream job without an email and phone contact for the recruiter to call you, so you shouldn't be so difficult to reach to set up a date. He always makes a good first impression in his introductory emails. He sends the women his phone number along with a message telling them that he's only available to speak at 12pm and 9pm.
Most people have busy lives, both personally and professionally. So if a woman called Bill outside of those two limited time slots, they'd not only get his voicemail, but he also had "call intercept" on his line requesting that you announce yourself before he'd pick up the call. Pre-screening your date's inbound phone call isn't sexy and enticing. Of course most of the women hung up. A little more flexibility and removing call intercept on his phone to make time for love might help with his search.
You've gone on too many first dates. You've managed to pass the dating filters, sent a few emails and text messages back-and-forth, and the first phone call went well. You dined at a restaurant that you hoped might impress him or her. The process took about two weeks, but it seems you never graduate to a second date. While the reasons may vary, many include: He or she didn't look like their photo There was no chemistry He or she never called again He or she didn't respond to your text or email message You've gone over your budget for dating You thought the first date went well.
They laughed at your jokes and said they'd like to see you again. You spent precious resources of time and money on the dating process with no return on your investment. This can lead to ODF. Yes, dating can be expensive, but you don't need to dine at the Four Seasons to impress someone. The result is, your wallet is now thin and you still find yourself alone on date night.
You get frustrated with the process and end up with ODF. If any of these five scenarios sound familiar, you're not alone.
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