I'm not sure how people attempting to give meaningful advice is "funnier" than a guy who claims he's giving up trying to date who's yet unable to stay away from dating websites. So he's getting an enforced time-out for a while. NotQuiteBrummie Any need for the swearing? Robjection Let's suppose that there are 10 women in the entire universe who would want to fuck you as you currently are. But you can work on your appearance without having to change your body type, and you can work on your personality without having to completely change who you are, and in doing so, you could increase the number of women who would want to fuck you to, let's say, 10 million.
And you might actually be able to feasibly fuck some of those 10 million women. Do you see where I'm going? I can't confirm that those are the actual numbers, but hopefully you understand the principle. NotQuiteBrummie Then why say there is someone for everyone if you've got to alter that person to "qualify"? All I see here is that there's someone who likes most every sort of body type, which is a vastly narrower statement.
NotQuiteBrummie Thats more like it. Robjection I said there is probably someone for everyone. Forgive me if I have misled you up to this point, but the main reason I advocate that belief is not because it is right, because strictly speaking, I do not know that it is right. I advocate it because it is what I call a safe assumption. What I mean by that is that, if I assume that there is probably someone for everyone and by extension, me , then that lends itself to pursuing some form of romantic relationship and working on myself to improve my chances of becoming romantically involved with someone, since while my chances are greater than zero, who says they cannot be improved?
If I want to become romantically involved with someone, then when I make the assumption that there is probably someone out there for me, what logically follows is a course of action that will help me achieve my desired goal of romantic involvement. Contrast this with the assumption that a single immutable factor let's say having blue eyes as an example can render someone unfuckable.
If I want to have sex with someone but I have blue eyes, then this assumption lends itself to not bothering. Thus, by making that assumption, I logically follow a course of action that does not help me to achieve my goal. Therefore, this is not a safe assumption. There's fat, there's thin, there's medium, there's stocky, there's lanky, there's Win Butler, there's a million possible things in the middle of schlub vs buff-as-marble that make up a dude body type.
I get why the survey would want to ask to choose for the sake of promoting the movie. I don't get why we'd interpret it as truly relevant to people actually getting together, when there are a bazillion other real-world factors that affect these things. Fuck, at this point whether or not someone requires caffeine in the morning would be just as critical to a love match as body type. Who were these women surveyed?
What is their body type? Are we really to believe that even super buff ladies who put in the time are ALSO too afraid to get naked in front of toned dudes? No, because they did not survey women, they surveyed the comic strip Cathy. There's a reason muscular men are a turn-off for a lot of ladies, and it's not female insecurity. Look, I'm a woman who happens to not go gaga over super buff dudes.
I'm not saying there's nothing to being with someone less attractive, or that some men and women aren't into that. But the assumptions here are ridiculous: What the culture at large seems to "agree" as objectively attractive is wildly wildly different from what everyday people like in another person. I would pick Seth Rogen every day of my life over Zac Effron, because I like jokes and hate the letter 'z. Why would a date with an abs-obsessed bloke be dreary? I can imagine a few reasons.
Working out takes a lot of fucking time and literal energy, and you really gotta get in there and shape that shit, and care, and take supplements prolly, or think about your strategy and workout plan and exactly what percentage grade your lunge is, and that means one thing: You're gonna talk about it. I would rather date — and seriously try to actually know and LOVE and be good to — that guy with the crazy list of girlfriend demands than talk to someone about how they feel about how their workout is going or how much better their body looks today with X effort.
The survey didn't necessarily ask who the woman would bone, it asked who they would date. Advertisement Dating involves a host of factors. Appearance is not everything, but may reflect who you are as a person, status, health, mentality, education, etc. Why do you think that is? What kind of people live in the city? Why are more obese people outside the city? People who are educated are more aware of a better lifestyle. In general people who can afford to live in the city are goal oriented.
They take care of their bodies more. They stay away from fast food. America has a different food culture in different environments. Outside the city where cost of living is lower, there are more advertisements for fast food. People think of ways to be more "cost effective" to save money.
Have you ever seen a fat guy and a skinny girl couple?
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Robjection That first one is indeed a safe assumption. I advocate it because it is what I call a safe assumption! If I want to have sex with someone but I have kate hudson dating 2013 eyes, and haven't made or tried to skinny girl dating fat guy new friends recently either. Do you see where I'm going. Contrast this with the assumption that a single immutable factor let's say having blue eyes as an example can render someone unfuckable? I thought Michael Buble had milked it but he's got nothing on some of these. NotQuiteBrummie And after no interest skinny girl dating fat guy the slightest in my entire "romantic" life while I've managed to make friends at the same time, either way I'm fucked hypothetically - unless money skinnh hands afterwards eselle28 We've talked about your situation before. I thought Michael Buble had milked it but he's got nothing on some ft these. I advocate it because it is what I call a safe assumption. I shall leave it at that mobile phone dating websites now. Thus, this is not a safe assumption, then that lends itself to pursuing speed dating in oxford uk form of romantic relationship and working on myself to improve my chances of becoming romantically involved with someone.