Communication immediately destroys the power of that anxiety. Cross-dressing is kind of like a performance. He announces he will cross-dress, then he dresses up, puts on his makeup and only then makes a memorable entrance. Gender is kind of like a performance. Seeing my boyfriend cross-dress and perform femininity really made me understand that gender is a performance to begin with. Women perform femininity because they are asked to and men perform masculinity because they are asked to.
Cross-dressers are super sexy. Panties are just as sexy on a man than they are on a woman. Cross-dressers are super vulnerable. I got really worried that some alpha male would appear and assault us and try to physically harm my partner. It was very strange for me, because being in a heterosexual relationship, I am usually considered to be the fragile individual that needs protection.
Having sex with a cross-dresser is pretty cool. I am not going to lie: Having sex with Galaxia is amazing. She is a lot more passionate in bed, which is something that I have yet to experience with my boyfriend. Ultimately, accepting that my boyfriend is a crossdresser really made our bond a whole lot stronger. The fact that I had sex with Galaxia just builds more on that same mutual trust.
So we deepened our sexual bond and our friendship in the same night. I think it's good that he posted pictures. People always complain and say "OMG.. I can't trust him now! I think it's healthy that he's being himself and not suppressing anything. Is it healthy for relationships and improving your dating odds? I can tell you this though. I am a crossdresser and I often wish that I wasn't. I think it's good to be upfront with people because you don't want to hide it and then feel the urge to do it after you've settled down with them.
I think that part of my personality influences the way I listen to and create music. But it's also a terrible thing to be born with because it puts you at a great disadvantage. Just like a woman that is obese or in a wheelchair, there will be a few guys that are into them, but the majority will say it's not their thing.
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